PHYSICAL INFIDELITY happens when you sexually engage with another person; but there’s also EMOTIONAL INFIDELITY, which happens when you let your heart be led by feelings and fantasies about other people. You take from your partner what is exclusively theirs and give it to someone else. This is why Jesus warned us that just by …
NO RELATIONSHIP can withstand lies. Sometimes the liar does it out of fear. Fear is a great generator of lies. Any lie is a character flaw, but fear makes it even worse. Therefore, to stop lying, the partner must first confront their fears and overcome them. The problem is that many couples do not cultivate …
TODAY I HEARD A SINGLE LADY say that her favorite movie is “50 First Dates” because Adam Sandler’s character spends the entire movie having to win back Drew Barrymore’s love every time she wakes up. And I felt SORRY for this young lady’s future husband. Believe it or not: romantic movies are a poison to …
WHO WANTS PEACE? The answer is obvious. However, what is not obvious is that peace is not achieved without forgiveness. Having peace will be impossible, as long as we fail to understand that we need the forgiveness of those whom we hurt and that we need to forgive them when they hurt us. Be it …
LOVE INCLUDES always thinking about how to make your partner’s life better. You strive to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and imagine what he or she is going through. Then ask yourself: “What would I like done to me if I were in this situation?” If you had worked the whole day at …
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